Women 150

Friday, May 26, 2006

Today I complete 11 months of marriage... What a great feeling to be married; yet free.

I began to think how my husband and I got along without any cliche'. Least did we know that we will be married and will be celebrating our first anniversary next month... Now.. now.. now.... Don't even think that I am going to give you a very flowery picture of marriage... It's true that it is difficult; it's all about love, fight, hatred, enemity, kindness, caress....

I always wonder why men ask for women's hand in marriage saying, "Will you be my wife?" or "Will you marry me?"..... Why can't they just ask "May I be your husband?" or "May I marry you?"... After all your seeking permission...

Now that's not how it happened for us our marriage, though.

It's nice to be back with a thought that was never expressed for a long time...

Thanks to all my encouragers...

Friday, May 05, 2006

Hola All...

For a change, I am going to write about a guy.
This is one guy who deserves all the recognition for being one of the best critics of my articles... Very dedicatedly does he start the day posting a comment before he starts writing his own article... Sometimes I feel that I write only to get a comment or let me put it as a critic's point of view.
If he was born sometime during the 18th century, he would have probably been the best critic analyst of Shakespeare... Most of the time he writes about himself... This in turn is a note for him to state that he should start writing again so that he can give me a chance to comment on his articles.... Well all said and done, he has this unique way of putting words accross in the most simplest way; although he writes only about stupid topics like himself... That is a talent now, if a person can write so much about a topic like onself...(it's a sarcastic statement; please don't mistake me to be a fan of yours)...

You can write; please continue to do so... rather type articles...

All the best for your writing and
To read my comments...!

Hey!!!

This could have been one of the most difficult messages for a lady to read at that hour of the night...
Now hey... hey... I write about women not because I am gay or a homosexual it's only because I have become a strong feminist...
Now this message that I sent to this really good friend of mine was a little shocking for her to read because she hadn't expected this in between her work hours...
I got her to read the complete message though... Women being a little more curious when compared to guys I thought of telling her about it...
This is how i started thinking of the message... My husband got off the bed and decided to use the rest room...

When he left the bedside... I got up and picked my phone...
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This is the message I typed:

"Hi >>>>>, A special note for you my friend. Always do this whenever it troubles you and never forget.................
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Shitting at least once helps...
Luv
Nitie Nite...

This was it and she called me just to request me to avoid talking about things that don't matter after shedding...

This is it!

Thursday, May 04, 2006

A letter To (Late) Shakespeare

Dear Shakespeare,

I wish you were around to see so much more that has happened in the world. I am sure you would have definitely written so many more plays and dramas.
If you wanted more fame you would have written comedy. If you wanted more money you would have written on lust, murder, wickedness (not like the three witches in Mackbeth, even worse), disaster and cruelty. If you wanted to be a simple man that you have always wanted to be you would have definitely written your way.
I learnt so much about art, drama, critics, play, poetry and so many things because of you. You had the talent to make a fairy tale sound real and true.

Now the criticism
There has never been a single play without women or a single play with women alone.

That's for now. Hoping to hear from you sometime soon.

A critic,
Laura

Shakespeare said, “To be or not to be”. Isn’t this true? Most often than not, all of us are in a dilemma when taking a decision. Why does this happen? I will tell ya… It is nothing but because we have too many options and they all look great to us.
When it comes to decision making, ensure to keep yourself as the priority and not your environment. Your job is made easy the minute you think of what is good for yourself. Others do matter; however, when it comes to the person who can get affected due to a particular decision, it is no one but you.
A simple example: You are about to get dressed in black for a party when you know others expect you to be wearing a pastel or a more colorful outfit. You can’t make up your mind because of others; just remember it’s only you who is going to wear the outfit and it is you who is going to carry it off. So there is nothing to make up your mind here, wear the gleaming black outfit and carry it off well.
That’s all.

I saw them!

I saw a little girl washing a bottle to fill drinking water for her father. I saw a woman pushing a cart for her husband. I saw another little girl going to buy milk and she had her little brother crying and walking along with her. All this was seen at 5 am and I was amazed that there are so many women working and none of them had a sign of fear on their face. I was traveling in my cab listening to my mp3 and let me tell you it motivated me when I saw these little incidents on the road.
They are definitely signs of care, love and responsibility.
Can you deny it?

Monday, May 01, 2006

Someone once said, “Panicking is nothing but fear.”

There are some things that people often forget like simplicity, calmness, peace, etc. It is not very important to remember it like the Ten Commandment but it definitely will make a difference if everyone thought of it at least once a day.
If you feel like you’re drowning in this ocean that has no end; don’t even bother about how deep you’re going but think of how long you can hold your breath so that you can see the surface soon. You don’t have to be a real good swimmer to survive while drowning. If you are a person who does not panic you can manage it lie in the water on your chest, let your chin touch your chest and spread out your hands and legs. It’s all about concentrating yet letting yourself lose to get to the surface. This is how easy it can be if you want it to be. Else, you might drown or panic or hurt yourself. Since hurting oneself is the cruelest thing one can do, try not to do it.